ACE: What Asexuality Reveals about Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex by Angela Chen

An eye-opening, meaningful read for those both within and outside the “asexual” community, Chen’s book presents a critical view of our society in which sex is commodified and a strong libido is considered “ideal.” While the ACE identity is often viewed with a deficit-mindset, Chen offers a wide variety of experiences rooted in the richness of interpersonal relationships and forms of intimacy beyond the physically penetrative. Part 2 can be read piece-meal, exploring lenses such as how feminism and disability intersect with asexuality. Ch.8’s “The Good Enough Reason” was a personal favorite, exploring the nuances of consent across all relationships.

Review by Heather, 2021-2022 Book Board Member